Sunday, December 5, 2010

The Importance of Family


When growing up I loved being around my grandma and grandpa, I especially loved being at their house. They only live about a ten-minute drive from me, so I saw them quite often. When at their house I always had the best time. Surrounded by my immediate family, along with nine cousins, eight aunts and uncles, and my grandparents it was hard not to have a good time. My grandparents loved their grandchildren a lot. They would have candy jars, a while drawer full of candy for back up, a cookie jar, a freezer stocked with ice cream and freezies, a fridge full of our favorite pop, and they even had a room designated for us grandchildren. The room was called the “play room,” this was where the kids could go to watch TV, hang out, and get away from the adults. My grandparent’s house was one if my favorite places to be.
On the morning of September 7, 2008 I woke up in my grandparents spare bedroom in the upstairs of their home. I went downstairs for breakfast, but I was surprisingly greeted with a tightly held hug from my great aunt. She asked how I was doing and if everything was all right. When I was questioned I became very confused on why I was being asked. I responded yes, and that I was okay. I slowly walked into the living room to check on my grandmother, who had been in there for the past few days on her deathbed.
I looked around the living room only to find nothing. The living room was put back to its original state, and my grandmother was gone. I thought about how important my grandmother was to our family. My grandma was the person who kept the whole family together and going strong. She supported and loved everyone no matter what. My grandma would be at all the sporting events whether it was hockey, basketball, baseball, or soccer. She was a devoted fan and loved cheering on her grandchildren and even her own children. But my grandmother was gone now, and the pieces all started to come together. My grandmother who I love so dearly was gone just like that. All I could think was how could she be gone? I was with her just last night, I did not even get to say goodbye. I knew she was very sick, but I never thought that she would actually pass away. She was my grandma and she was always there for me, she can’t be gone. Later that day I was informed that after I had went to bed, a little after midnight my grandmother passed away from fighting her courageous battle with cancer.

            Nearly thirteen months later on October 19, 2009 I came home from school to find my mother full of tears, I knew from just one look that something was terribly wrong. My mother explained to me that my grandfather was admitted into the hospital and he would not make it through the rest of the day. I immediately wanted to be right by his side. When I arrived at the hospital everyone was surrounding him in his bed including his children, in-laws, grandchildren, and his best friends. The only person missing was my aunt Annette, which would be my grandfather’s youngest child. Annette was on a on a business trip and soon hopped on the next flight back to Minneapolis. While waiting for my aunt to arrive I was given the chance to hold my grandpa’s hand, I was a little skeptical at first, but I knew I would regret it if I did not. I sat at his bedside, slightly holding onto his hand because I did not want to hurt him. His hand was so cold and dry, and it somewhat made me uncomfortable.  While holding his hand it made me think back to all my memories with my grandpa. My grandpa was more of a quiet person who liked to keep to himself. He may not have shown much emotion, but I know deep down he cared about all of us. At times he was also very humorous. Whenever my dad would leave the room my grandpa would make a joke about him, which I always thought was funny. Those were some of my favorite moments with my grandpa. I heard a nonstop beeping noise, and it made me flash back to reality. All of a sudden I realized there were a lot of beeping and blinking machines. There was one machine in particular that really caught my eye, his heart rate. I noticed that it was continuing to drop ever so slowly. All I did was pray that my grandfather would hang in there until my aunt arrived. About three hours had past since I first arrived that my aunt had gotten there.
After another couple of hours my mother brought my brother and I home because it was a school night. Before I left I said my goodbye to my grandfather, and that was one of the hardest things I had ever had to do. I knew I would regret it if I did not because I learned that the hard way from the passing of my grandmother. I went home hoping that I would get to see my grandfather live another day, but unfortunately about a half hour after we left my grandfather passed away from pneumonia.

            With both of my grandparents now deceased it was a huge change not only I would have to overcome, but my whole family as well. The simplest things our family would do together were never going to be the same. The biggest change we had to get use to is not having them apart of our family gatherings anymore, and those were a big part of our family traditions. We would have a get together for everything, including Halloween. After talking with my aunt Michelle, my grandparents fourth child out of the six, agreed that family gatherings were one of the hardest parts since their passing. She also expressed “The core of our family was now gone, and we must rely on one another for support.” However, since the passing of my grandparent we have two new additions to the family, one grandchild and one great grandchild. My aunt stated, “This has helped distracted all of us a little bit from grieving our losses and be happy about the new lives in our family.”
Two years have gone by since my grandmother has passed and it has not been quite a year yet for my grandfather, but for some reason it feels like they never left. It feels like their spirits are still so much alive, which in some ways they still are. Before my grandmother passed she said she wanted to be reincarnated into a butterfly, every time I see one I say “Hello” because I believe it is her checking in on me. My grandfather on the other hand was cremated; at my cabin we spread some of his ashes because that was one of his favorite places to be. Whenever I am at the cabin it feels like he is sitting right there with us. These are the two biggest things that have helped me overcome my grandparent’s deaths, as I am sure it has helped my family members as well. From this experience I have learned if you have family you should appreciate them because some people do not have any all and one day they will not be there. To me family is one of the most important things in life.

Why Recycling is Important



Recycling. Why is it so important? Why should I have to recycle? What can I recycle? I remember when I thought these questions to myself.  I used to think recycling was not a big deal, and did not matter. I even use to throw away bottles in a regular trashcan if there was not a recycling bin near by. This whole thought process of mine all started to change while I was in high school. At the high school there would be recycling bins in the classrooms. You would think you could put anything recyclable in there, but if you threw anything in there besides paper even a perfectly recyclable bottle the janitors would throw out everything because they would not separate them.  This really irritated me, “Why would they throw away perfectly good resources?” I eventually figured out it was not all the janitors fault; it was the students as well. Students were not correctly recycling or correctly disposing of their trash. When knowing my school did not recycle to their full potential I decided I must recycle all that I can on my own. 

Knowing most people at my high school did not recycle it made me wonder how much people actually did. I found about 40-50% of Americans recycle all the time according to research from the Natural Marketing Institute.  While sitting at the Smaug in Kryzsko Commons at Winona State University on November 2, 2010 I observed two recycling bins one for paper and another for plastic and aluminum. I also observed a trashcan that was nearby. I watch them from 11:00 AM to 1:00 PM, which is lunchtime for most college students. While observing I noticed that 19 people put their recyclables in the trashcan, and only eight people recycled correctly. I also noticed mostly plastic products, and paper was thrown in the trashcans. I interviewed a freshman here at WSU on if she thought recycling is important? Ana stated, “Yes, because it decreases the crowdedness in the landfills. Also it does not take very much effort.” I found this to be very interesting especially with her next response. I asked Ana, if she thought recycling was so important, why did she put the recyclable in the trash? She answered, “I was being lazy and the garbage can was closer to me.”

From most people being to “lazy” it causes a harmful build up of trash. It is said that the average American creates 1,600 pounds of garbage a year. Thus we must recycle to create more room in landfills because not everything is biodegradable. There are so many things that are recyclable, and I bet most people did not know some of these things were. Recyclables are separated into six categories. Recyclables include electronics, and hazardous items such as paint. There also is plastic, paper, household items such as furniture, and garden items such as fertilizers or mulch. Next there are automotive items such as tires or car batteries. Finally recyclables consist of metal, glass and construction items such as brick, carpet or wood.

Even though we are able to recycle so much now, in the past we lost so many valuable resources, and we still are today because not enough people are recycling. Earths precious resources are getting used up fast with the type of environment we live in today. According to enotes.com when recycling one ton of paper it saves 7,000 gallons of water, 3.3 cubic yards of landfill space, 126 gallons of oil, 17 trees, and 4,000 kilowatt-hours of electricity, which is enough to power the average home for six months. This is why it is so necessary that we recycle to save all of these natural resources that we are losing. There are also many other reasons why we must recycle. According to professorshouse.com these reasons include to cut back on global warming, makes us more energy efficient, keeps our landfills from overflowing, improves our groundwater, reduces air pollution, it creates jobs, it ads property value, and it is good business. For example air pollution is reduced when we recycle because the amount of air pollutants is decreased from not having to incinerate as much. Just from recycling glass, paper, batteries, engine oil, and aluminum cans it will decrease the amount of pollutants emitted into the air up to 70% according to the European Environment Agency.

In order to save our resources we must “Reduce, reuse, and recycle” which a current motto used today. In today’s generation there are tons of things people are able to do in order to “Reduce, reuse, and recycle.” To reduce do not buy heavily packaged goods, stop unwanted deliveries such as junk mail, grow your own vegetables, and make your own lunch to take to school or work. To reuse rent or borrow items, donate old unwanted items, buy things in refillable containers, look for long lasting appliances, buy rechargeable items, and reuse shopping bags. To recycle choose products in packaging that can be recycled, buy products made from recycled materials, and find out where your nearest recycling facilities are.

Even though recycling is widely accepted as the “Right thing to do” (Harding) people are still not recycling. After researching I have came to find people are not recycling for four main reasons. The number one reason is because it is an inconvenience. This is because in the rural and other regions in the country there is no garbage pick up, which means people taking time out of their day to find a recycling center. The next reason is because of the lack of space. Some people do not have the extra space in their home for a recycling bin. Another reason is because of misinformation. Many people are not seeing how not recycling is affecting their daily life because they do not live near a landfill (Harding). The final reason for not recycling is it is too confusing. For example there are about thirteen different types of plastics to recycle and people do not have the time to educate his or her self about it.

There are many things we can do today to help recycle, but with only about half of Americans recycling could you imagine what the world would look like if we did not recycle at all? If we do not continue to recycle we will run out of space to hid our trash, there will be more pollution, “islands” of trash in the ocean will continue to grow, natural habitats for wildlife will be destroyed, we would also be losing 850 million trees annually. This is why we must recycle all that we can now. Our future children should not have to grow up in a world that is harmful to them because of the mess we made from not recycling.



Works Cited

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